Find Your True Love
There is a lot of societal as well as self-inflicted pressure to partner in our community. Finding the right man takes patience, but it also means working on yourself to be the partner you yourself would want to offer another loving man. Loving yourself is the necessary first step. Often we are down on ourselves when we have survived a break-up or a loss of love. Ageing, HIV status, health issues, physical limitations, internalized homophobia and job loss are amongst the many life challenges that often leave us feeling less than complete and unworthy of love. I have worked with gay men for years both individually and in groups to build a positive self regard and inner core confidence. I also work closely with men to help them use their strengths and their personalities to develop the skills necessary to meet, establish and sustain loving connections.